I mean when most of use watch movies in which the main character dates someone else to get the attention of their ex we think this is crazy. However, The Magic of Making Up disagrees with this notion.

The Magic of Making Up actually recommends that a couple that is broken up dates other people.

That said, the reason that The magic of Making Up suggests you take this action is very different from that of the fictional characters we see on the big screen.

Moving On

The Magic of Making Up suggests that getting out there and dating others can be a good push in the right direction if you need to move on from your ex.

Even if you are hoping for reconciliation, it helps to divert your attention elsewhere. I mean inside you could be dying over your ex, but if they hear about you dating they will see you as a strong and self-assured person. This will be more attractive than the alternative.

The Magic of Making Up has a whole section dedicated to the benefits of appearing as if you have moved on.

Self Confidence

The Magic of Making Up also stresses how dating someone else can help your own personal ego. Even if we are still in love with our ex, the fact is, that having another person find us attractive is a confidence booster.

Self confidence is attractive and The Magic of Making Up tells us how we can use this new found self confidence to attract an ex.

Getting Back in the Game and Distraction

The magic of making Up also points out that getting out can be a good way to keep your mind of your ex. It can help fight depression and also help ease nerves about getting out in the world as a single person.

The Magic of Making Up gives many suggestions for diverting your focus after a break up.